Imagine that you are an actor on stage in front of an audience. You reach for a prop that is key to the script and it’s not there.
To keep the audience from knowing that a mistake has been made, you ad-lib a line that lets the backstage crew know what is amiss. Instantly, they jump into action to find a creative way to get that object seamlessly to you. Perhaps the next performer to come onstage will ad-lib a reason for carrying it on, or a new character will appear delivering the item.
You don’t know how that item will get on stage, but you know that the crew is bringing it to you as quickly as possible. In the meantime, it’s your job to keep the story going and work with what you have until it gets there. You also have to be ready to respond to the new situation so that the scene makes sense and the audience remains oblivious to the change in the story.
This is a little like life. Imagine that we are all actors on a stage in front of an audience. Only we have no time between sets or performances to reset the stage and put the necessary props in place. The Universal Stagehands are ready and able to bring us everything we need to keep the performance going, but they must stay out of sight.
Sometimes what we ask for doesn’t make sense for the storyline of the play, or will take some creative means to appear in a way that seems natural and seamless to the audience. It’s our job to ask for it and know that it is coming. In the meantime, we have to work with what we have until the requested item, person, or situation gets there. And until it does, we have to be ready to respond to the new and creative scenes that are developing in the storyline to bring us what we have asked for.
What messes so many Life Actors up is that they don’t believe the Universal Stagehands are on it and are doing their best to bring them what they need. Instead, they stand in the middle of the performance and demand that thing. They tell the audience they can’t move forward without that thing. They draw the audience’s attention to the thing that is missing. They wheel about on the stage complaining about the Stagehands, all the while missing each of their attempts to get the requested thing onstage unseen.
In this situation, no matter what the Stagehands try to do to get the Life Actor’s attention, they are ignored and the play continues to drag on in that spot making the Life Actor feel terrible. It’s often not until the Life Actor gives up and gets on with the business of continuing the play that the Stagehands are able to slip in unseen to deliver the requested item, and by then the Life Actor may have decided they don’t’ want it anymore, or may feel betrayed that it showed up too late.
Stop asking for what you want to appear instantly. It’s a process! The Universal Stagehands are on it! They are brilliant at what they do and if you just continue to play along with the storyline and jump on every opportunity they give you, everything you want will appear seamlessly in your life production. When you and the Universal Stagehands are working in concert, the audience will never know you didn’t have what you needed to begin with. It will look like it was part of the story and meant to be all along.
You are closer to achieving your goals than you can possibly imagine. But you must stop fighting your life production and the story that is unfolding. Relax. Begin to work with the situation instead of against it. Continue to do all the things that you can to give the Universal Stagehands a creative way to bring you what you want. Trust that they are exceptional at their jobs, and know that what you want is coming.
Together we can do it!
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As an actor, I can really identify with this analogy! (Especially since I was involved in a situation exactly like this on stage, once upon a time…) Thank you so much for another fantastic metaphor for life!
I thought you might appreciate that analogy! Glad it has resonance.
Good one, hon! And like Julia I have found myself in this situation as an actor many times. The key word is Trust. Thanks for another lesson spot on!
Awesome! So glad my favorite actors resonate! The key words is trust. Just relax and know it’s coming. Play along. It can be stressful, or it can be fun. Love you!
Great post, I’ve found when I go with the flow and let go amazing people, situations and solutions just seem to step forward and make it more amazing than ever imagined, which just wouldn”t have presented if I hadn’t, thank you 🙂
Absolutely! Sounds like you are doing a great job working with the Universal Stagehands! Thanks for commenting!
Great analogy..My stagehands are jokesters and keep reminding me that the script is useless…this is all improv!
Mostly. What story intentions you came in with were all about having fun! That’s why your Stagehands are such jokesters!
A wonderful way to describe the trust and faith we must have in the Universe…everything is just how it should be..beautifully perfect, we just need to believe 🙂
Absolutely! Thanks so much commenting!
This was brilliant and a little humbling for me. Thank you so much for the reminder. 🙂
Glad it was helpful. Thanks for commenting.
What a great way to visualize the process! Thanks for sharing this- I loved it.
So glad! Thanks for commenting!
Loved this post!! You paint a nice pictue!!
Thanks, Joyce! Appreciate you!
Another great post!
Thanks so much, Kristin!
Hey Hanna, it’s been a while… Hope all is well… Great post by the way!
I have been very engaged, but will try to get back more often. Love your blog!
Thanks Hanna. You have used a great analogy to illustrate the point. We’ve probably all fallen into this trap at one time or another. Trying to force the “hows” just takes us off in the wrong direction.
Thanks so much for your comments. Agreed. Everyone has done this! It’s so much more fun working with the Universal Stagehands!
Great thought Hanna. But if we were to imagine we are spirits waiting to be born. How would we visualise our life going forward then?
Any way we want for everything is possible in spirit. Appreciation.