I’m sitting here drinking a green protein shake (spinach, banana, flax-seed, vanilla protein powder, cold water, cinnamon, and ice) feeling good about getting back on track nutrition-wise.
My husband and I just returned from our first cruise, which we took to celebrate our 20th wedding anniversary. And boy, people are not exaggerating about the food on cruises. Delicious food is everywhere in massive quantities!
Before I left, I blogged about my plan to deal with food and exercise during the trip and asked you fabulous readers to help keep me accountable.
My intention was to enjoy myself and to feel like I was having a vacation, but also to come back feeling good, balanced, and with my healthy habits intact.
While I didn’t write down what I ate every day (hey, I was on vacation!), knowing that I would be reporting to you all on how I did, I kept a running tab in my head and was planning to give myself a grade of “B” for how well I navigated the week.
But rereading my intention has me re-evaluating that grade. I actually met that intention spot on! I never felt deprived, kept my indulgences mostly in balance, and feel the momentum to resume my healthy habits. Good on me!
Here’s how I did.
Food—I avoided the bread basket all but the night of our anniversary and selected fairly healthy meals. I did eat a lot more beef than normal, but since I am allergic to fish or seafood, I would have been eating the same chicken dish over and over otherwise. Instead of my normal five to six small meals it was definitely more like three larger meals with one snack, but for the most part I avoided empty calories and indulged in healthy fruit because it was so good and fresh.
Sweets—My wonderful husband, David, surprised me which a romance package that included two evenings where appetizers and desserts delivered to our room. The good news was most of the canapés had fish or seafood, so I couldn’t eat them. But the desserts definitely got eaten. Other than that, I ordered dessert every night, but limited myself to a few bites.
Alcohol—The plan was to stick to one cocktail or glass of wine a night. Here I did pretty well. I only had two glasses of champagne twice—the night we arrived when David had scheduled a bottle of champagne to be waiting on us in our room, and the actual day of our anniversary. If I was going to indulge, lower-calorie champagne was definitely the place to do it!
Exercise—We only hit the gym twice, but were walking, swimming, and active the other days. My body was letting me know that it was pretty good idea to also take a slight vacation from the gym. As a result, a slight back injury is feeling much better and I should be able to get back to hitting the workouts hard in the next week or two. And as soon as I finish this blog, I’m going to head upstairs to exercise.
Sleep—We did a good job of balancing our activities with adequate sleep. I definitely felt relaxed and rested at the end of the cruise.
Healthy Thoughts—Making wellness a lifestyle means consistently practicing healthy thoughts, as well as actions. One thing I noticed is that I felt much less self-conscious in my swimsuit than I have in the past. That is definite progress!
How I planned to evaluate my success at achieving balance over our vacation was that I would come home having maintained my weight and feeling good physically and mentally. While I didn’t weigh this morning, my jeans fit just fine and I do feel good. Mission accomplished!
Fun, rest, and relaxation are absolutely an important part of our wellness journeys. Maintaining balance is the key.
Together we can do it!
Congratulations! I hope I do as well on the cruise I’m taking in May. Right now, I’m struggling with “new relationship weight.” I’ve gained 4 pounds during the months we’ve been dating. My fiance is always buying candy and cookies. I try not to eat them, but there they are. Plus, we go out to eat way too much. I’ve put the brakes on the eating out and we’re now preparing meals together. My plan is to lose this extra weight before the cruise. It’s just driving me crazy and makes me feel unattractive. My challenge is to not beat myself up while losing it.
Sounds like you are taking positive steps to reverse the trend. What are some of the mental shifts you can make when you catch yourself beating yourself up and feeling unattractive? Figuring out what you are going to say to yourself and practicing those new thoughts regularly arms you when you find yourself in that feeling. Let me know how I can best support you as you prepare for the cruise! Hope you enjoy it as much as we did.
It sounds like you had a great anniversary vacation. Happy Anniversary, BTW. I take to heart today’s post as I am going to spend my 60th in Playa del Carmen (coming up in April) and I want it to be a healthy vacation/celebration. I don’t drink, but I am easily seduced by chocolate. I like the idea of ordering dessert and taking only a few bites. Sending you love and hugs for twenty years of marriage.
Thanks so much! I have total confidence that you can meet your intention for your 60th. What a wonderful birthday to be celebrating!
The first part of vacation is “vacate.”
It is a time to relax and enjoy.
A cruise is a great way to do this.
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